Earlier this week I was talking to a friend of mine who was sharing a concern that she had about a little 3 year old that she babysits 2 days a week. She mentioned that he doesn't talk a lot ... and not because he's shy, but because he doesn't know a lot of words. This got me to thinking about oral language. Oral language development is a key factor in learning to read. The larger the child's vocabulary, the better able he/she is to read. One year, I taught a student that had a VERY difficult time reading. I found it interesting, however, that if I gave him a book about trucks, he was able to read a much more difficult book than he could have otherwise. I think that, first of all, he was more interested in the book about trucks than he was about ANYTHING else, but also, he had a much broader vocabulary to draw upon when reading these kinds of books.
The easiest and best way to help your child with their oral language development is to talk with them. The more words they hear and encounter, the broader their vocabulary will be. An interesting study done by Hart and Risley (1995, 2002) studied 42 families of varying socioeconomic backgrounds. They recorded every word spoken at home between a parent and their child. A couple of things that I found to be so interesting were the differences between professional families, working class families, and welfare families. Children, on average, in a professional family, would have had some type of experience with 42 million words; in the working class family, 26 million words; and in the welfare family, 13 million. Not only that, but children in professional families hear 10 times the amount of positive and encouraging words than welfare families hear per hour. I'm not writing this blog, however, about the differences between all the socioeconomic groups. My purpose is to show how important it is for children to be in a world of language. Children who are talked with and encouraged, are going to know more words, just because they hear more words.
So, what can we do? I recently took a class where we discussed oral language. In that class, our teacher gave us several ideas, which can also be found in the book,
Teaching Children to Read: The Teacher Makes the Difference (Reutzel & Cooter 2008). His ideas are for classroom teachers, but can also work for parents. I also have added some of my thoughts and ideas to his.
Interviews--this can be a formal interview or an informal interview. I used to have a project, when I taught 4th grade, where my students had to interview one of their parents about their job. At home, my parents used to have interviews around the dinner table, asking each one of us about school. (At least it
felt like an interview!) Then we would also have monthly or every few months a more formal interview with my dad so he could see how things were going.
Play "Simon Says" with your child or even "Mother May I?". These are great activities that teach about commands, and with "Mother May I?" you are teaching them to be polite. :)
My niece (5, almost 6) calls my mom every Sunday and talks with her for about 15 minutes. The funny thing is, the last time I talked with her, my niece did most of the talking. This is a great opportunity for little kids to learn that phones used to be for talking, not texting. :)
Of course, another great opportunity to talk is by reading aloud a story together and then talking about the book. (This is great with any age. The older they get, the deeper the conversation can be.)
Another opportunity for learning to communicate and develop oral language would be if a child has to persuade an adult to let him/her do something. For example, if your child wants to go play with a friend, they need to be able to persuade you that this is a good idea. (I used to have to do this all the time at home: "I'll practice my piano right when I get home.")
When your child is young, play with him/her. Pretend with them. Make a puppet together and retell a favorite story, or just make one up together with puppets or other toys. Reutzel and Cooter talk about using puppets to retell stories in the classroom. Sometimes shy children will open up if they can use a puppet.
While teaching 3rd grade especially, my students LOVED to tell me jokes. This is another great opportunity for the child with their oral language development. You can tell them jokes and let them tell you jokes. I remember in my family, every Monday night we would have a family meeting that we called Family Home Evening. Everyone in my family had a job to fill for this and one of the jobs was to share a joke. I still remember my brother's joke about Benjamin Franklin. It made absolutely NO SENSE, but we all laughed anyway. He later became quite the joke teller. He discovered one of his many talents, I guess.
Small group activities are another great way to get the children talking. Small groups can do anything from reading together and discussing the story to doing a science experiment together. Sometimes small group work is better and a wonderful opportunity for a less certain child to talk ... they are a lot less intimidated in a small group.
Anyway! There are some ideas that can hopefully help us have positive communication with our children: our own children or our students to help them develop their oral language. Reading really starts with oral language. The more words they know or are familiar with, the better readers they can be.
Carrie
(All scholarly information for this entry comes from
Teaching Children to Read: The Teacher Makes the Difference 5th edition by D. Ray Reutzel and Robert B. Cooter, Jr. (2008). This includes the Hart and Risley study referred to.)